• Home
  • About Me
  • Support Me
  • Contact & work with me
  • Life/lifestyle
    • Self Love
    • Mental Health
    • Personal Growth
    • Confidence
  • Letters
  • Important Causes
  • Shop my designs
  • Creatives
    • Photography
    • Music

Esterella

pinterest facebook twitter instagram youtube

 



Somewhere between deadlines, meetings, work and real life, this blog went quiet. The work didn’t and neither did the life lessons that came with it. This post is a reflection on a few things I have learned while working full time.

I first started working full time with a lot of energy, and willing to give a lot of myself to my job. Over two years into working full time, there are a few things I have learnt and a few things I would do differently. This is what I would tell myself if I was to start work for the first time. If I were starting a job for the first time all over again, these are the lessons I’d want to hear from day one. 

Share
Tweet
Pin



2023 has brought change for me but in the best ways - starting a job in the legal industry helping victims of domestic violence and moving in with my partner. As I have done since 2017, this is my reflection on 2023.
Share
Tweet
Pin


The original post on therapy was written when I had just started therapy. Having finished therapy in January 2022, I have had time to reflect on the overall experience. I wanted to document what it was like, what I have learned and my overall takeaways from the experience. 
Share
Tweet
Pin





Having spent most of my life in the education system, there was always an obvious next step. Progressing onto the next academic year. I grew accustomed to the sense of security of knowing that I would be returning to school or in my later years, university. No matter how difficult life got and the things it threw at me, that seemed to be the one constant and something that helped ground me. Sure there were changes, like going from primary school to secondary school and secondary school to sixth form. Then sixth form to university and these had their own challenges, as all new phases do. But, there was one constant in it all, there was always a clear next step for me, even if it was different to the previous one.
Share
Tweet
Pin
Text reading small things you can do to be more eco-friendly. Plant digital graphic in the centre.


Over the last few years, I’ve found myself increasingly more conscious of the impact that I have on the planet and environment. I’ve always cared about the planet and hate to see the damage to it, but beforehand, I didn’t really give much thought to how my actions could be affecting it. One of the good things about sustainability and eco-friendliness becoming so big on social media (although it should have never been a trend and rather something we are always looking out for) was that it got me to think more deeply about what I was already doing and what more I could do. This post may seem very obvious and not particularly mind-blowing, but I am posting it more as a reminder that it matters more what you do change, no matter how small. Social media these days is bombarded with seemingly perfect sustainable lifestyles so I wanted to show a more human and realistic side.

Share
Tweet
Pin


My time at university, although filled with some of the best times of my life were also the hardest years of my life. I had a lot of lows and at points felt like I had hit rock bottom. This has meant that I have ended up learning a lot both about myself and generally from experience. Now that I have finished my law degree at university, I wanted to reflect on my experience generally and the takeaways from my time at university.
Share
Tweet
Pin
Older Posts

ABOUT ME

ABOUT ME
Hi, I am a 20 something year old woman sharing my thoughts and honest experiences on life. My aim is to help, inspire, motivate, and remind you that you are never alone no matter what you are experiencing.

Support me

Subscribe

* indicates required

recent posts

Popular Posts

  • Things I have learnt in 19 years
    I recently turned 19 (in December) and I just wanted to document a little on how it feels or at least part of the journey on growing older...
  • Letter to someone going through a difficult moment
    Just because life is sometimes not so glamorous. It is adapted a little from a letter I wrote to myself . Couldn't post at the time be...
  • Your best is always good enough
    In a world driven by results, it is easy to get lost in whether you have reached a certain milestone or a particular figure. It can feel li...
  • Talking things through
    It is so easy to bottle everything up and not share something. Because it can be so much easier to answer I'm fine when asked how you...
  • Forgiving yourself
    One of the feelings I have typically found the hardest to cope with are those of guilt. When you feel awful you have hurt someone (uninte...

Categories

Body confidence Body confidence tips Confidence End of year reflection Letters Life Life Lessons Life/lifestyle Mental health Organisation Personal growth Photography Self Care Self-Love Student Student Life Thoughts

Blog Archive

  • ▼  2026 (1)
    • ▼  April (1)
      • Lessons Learned: My Journey Through the Ups and Do...
  • ►  2024 (1)
    • ►  January (1)
  • ►  2023 (3)
    • ►  June (1)
    • ►  March (1)
    • ►  January (1)
  • ►  2022 (9)
    • ►  October (2)
    • ►  September (2)
    • ►  August (2)
    • ►  April (2)
    • ►  March (1)
  • ►  2021 (11)
    • ►  December (1)
    • ►  September (1)
    • ►  July (2)
    • ►  May (1)
    • ►  April (1)
    • ►  March (1)
    • ►  February (2)
    • ►  January (2)
  • ►  2020 (51)
    • ►  December (4)
    • ►  November (4)
    • ►  October (4)
    • ►  September (4)
    • ►  August (5)
    • ►  July (4)
    • ►  June (2)
    • ►  May (6)
    • ►  April (4)
    • ►  March (5)
    • ►  February (5)
    • ►  January (4)
  • ►  2019 (27)
    • ►  December (5)
    • ►  November (5)
    • ►  October (5)
    • ►  September (5)
    • ►  August (4)
    • ►  July (1)
    • ►  March (1)
    • ►  January (1)
  • ►  2018 (13)
    • ►  December (1)
    • ►  September (4)
    • ►  August (1)
    • ►  July (2)
    • ►  March (1)
    • ►  February (1)
    • ►  January (3)
  • ►  2017 (2)
    • ►  December (1)
    • ►  October (1)
Powered by Blogger.
  • Privacy Policy
  • Terms & Conditions
  • Accessibility
  • © Copyright Esterella | All rights reserved | Created with by BeautyTemplates